People, after a certain age, tend to change.
Especially those who have crossed 50, more so after 60.
They make it a regimen to go for a Walk religiously every day,start diet restrictions,try to withdraw to themselves and pretend that they are not interested in things which they think belong to Youth.
Surprising!
Life does not happen in compartments.
It is a flow in alignment with the individual’s dispositions.
Because one turns over in age, does not mean he is to change his likes and dislikes.
You have not been able to do the things you wanted to earlier because of your career, Family commitments.
Now you are free to do what you like and enjoy doing.
And there is no pressure.
Unless,
You have the mistaken impression that decisions taken by your children , in the family, means that you are sidelined,
You feel that you have to be consulted for everything,
You have the arrogance to think you are always right’
Your decision is final.
Remember how many times have we felt, in the past,that these pressures of running the day-to-day affairs and wished others would share the burden, especially children.
And we train the children towards that end.
Then why this confusion?
Do what you like, without affecting the Family,maintain a detached attachment.
If you feel alright, no need to follow the myth imposed on the aged-be your age,do pooja regularly,go for a walk, restrict your diet….the recommendations are endless.
Do what you like and enjoy Life.
You have only one to Live.
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