There are many Realationships which we form and there are some which are granted to us.
Parents,Brothers and Sisters and Children….
In these we have no choice.
In Tamil and Sanskrit there are unique words to denote these relationships.
Tamil :Parents-Petror.-one who begets-They beget children,They are the custodians.
Sanskrit-Sahodaran/Sahodari-of the same Blood-sharing the same Blood.
Of these the relationships between brothers is at one level and between sister and brother is at another level.
A man sees in his sister his mother.
Despite his ragging her early in Life, a man is totally dedicated to his sister to his younger sister.
This slightly differs from his elder sister.
With the younger sister he is totally free and indulgent, while with the elder one he is more reverent and a little reserved.
With the later he seeks advice,but with the former he shares every thing as he would with a close friend.
No doubt they have their quarrels as befits a true relationship.
A sister is more like a mother but with difference , she guides him tenderly.
Whatever be the age , his affection for the sister and hers for the brother does not fade.
Owing to the fact that one has to go different ways by getting married and has his/her own Family, the Love remains dormant.
The stages vary as a Child,Adolescent’married and after be-getting children.
Asa child they quarrel, be a informers to parents of each other, as adolescents they share their innermost feelings unique to that age.
But this relationship seems to strain a bit after marriage. mainly because of the fact another woman enters the Life of man and women being possessive by Nature are disturbed.
They can not reconcile themselves to the fact that time has moved.
They forget that also are sister in Law to her husband’s sister.There their behaviour is different, similar to her brother’s wife.
But be it a brother or sister the affection sustains till the grave.
All these were brought into focus in Neeyaa,Naana of STAR Vijay on 10 June .
The show was well anchored by Mr.Gopinath, who seems to know to ask the right question without being too intrusive.
Excellent Anchor who seems to research his subject,
(The greatest relief was not to find the self-styled Expert Dr,Shalini who normally offers text-book views, totally unrelated to reality.)
Now watch the video and the greatest song on the love between by Kannadasan in Paasa Malar.
Listen and Down load at http://gosong.net/MALARNTHUM.html
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