Truth is that we have no contol over things in the world including ourselves.Things happen as they do, despite us.We imagine cause and effect relationships;in fact causal relationships are only a tool of our mind to categorise events.
The only way to remain happy is to change our perceptions of the world and accept things as they are.(even here our choice is limited as our dispositions to perceive are predetermined , whether you accept it or not)
On Things we control.
Do we control people and things?
