Category Parenting

Education, Choosing A Course.

Selecting a Course for Higher Studies is a daunting task.

The Course one selects for Higher Studies determines the Career.

It is not practical, at this point of time,to debate and stake one's Life, by arguing about the System of Education in India being one of producing machines that aim to produce mark oriented Curriculum a against real Education which is Character building and about the teaching of Skills to face Life.

Whether one likes it or not the system and society is oriented towards Money.

Before one proceeds further, this fact has to be kept in Mind.

In India, in general there used to be time when parents chose the course,I would not say 'chose',-but enrolled in a Course available,for their children.

Our generation studied what our Father has joined us in , married whom he pointed out and we, at least. I, have no regrets,

Now children are better informed and have a clear idea as to what they want to do with their Career and are focused.

This post is for them and parents also may have a few points for them to ponder over.

Parents must realize and accept that to days children have more information(not knowledge) and it is their future .

So one should limit oneself to guiding them and not try setting their Life /Career Agenda for them.

It is essential for parents to get to know the latest trends nd advise children from their stand point and at the same time point out the pitfalls .

It is not ethical and fair trying to ram down your aspiration on your child for he is what He or She is.

At best basic values that go to make good one a good Human Beings has to be inculcated, like Honesty,Integrity, Harming none, hard work, perseverance and nerves of steel to face Life's problems.

Children also must remember that parents are not enemies; they are interested in your welfare and want to ensure that you do not suffer for none can share your failures or the pain associated with it and they must learn to listen to them .

While choosing a Course, which is 10th standard in India where specialization starts,bear in mind couple of facts.

There are always things you want to do ,pursue and like and what is good what that secures your financial security.

Idealism to pursue what one wants to do is fine ,but to achieve that one needs financial security.

Unfortunately, in Life these two normally do not co-exist.

On balance it is safe to choose something which offers you financial security and affords you the luxury of doing what you want to do.

The same principle works for Jobs as well.

How does one choose a Course?

The ‘Sex Education Syllabus’

What is Sex Education?

Let's see its Definition.

Burt defined sex education as the study of the characteristics of beings; a male and female.[1] Such characteristics make up the person's sexuality. Sexuality is an important aspect of the life of a human being and almost all the people including children want to know about it.[citation needed] Sex education includes all the educational measures which in any way may of life[clarification needed]that have their center on sex. .Shorn of jargon, it is about teaching what Sex is about.

You may notice the definition needs 'citation' for sensuality.

If you can not define what sexuality is, which I am sure we can not define as we can hunger and other instincts,how does one go about it?

Sensuality and Sex appeal are the fundamentals of Sex.

Sex education includes all the educational measures which in any way may of life[clarification needed]that have their center on sex

Same confusion in definition...
The topics taught in Biology already.

Now Communication is not as a Soft Skill or they talking about intercourse being taught in Communication Skill?

Onto Sexual Pleasures and Orientation.

How do you explain Sexual Pleasure ?

That 'Straight Sex' is more pleasurable than , say gay Sex,Lesbianism, Sadism,BDSM, Fellatio and other designated Perversions?

Wait, people might take objection to my grouping gay sex and lesbianism with perversions for most countries have legalized it.

How does one compare?

By trying out each one of them?

And how do you decide which age group can understand what?

under the guise of Sex Education what is about to happen is the detailed Illustration of all perverse sexual activities and a suggestion that it might not be good for the individual and the Society, in the passing.

Absolute rubbish.

If people want to delude , by introducing Sex education they would not be barring the Sex Information available on the Internet and in fact give the children all the Information under one head with official legal sanction
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