Parenting

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Parenting Consistency Punishment Myths Facts

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The first Myth is that you need to be trained and educated on Parenting.

Parenting is instinctive and no body needs training or to be educated.

One picks it up as one becomes a parent.

I recall a Seminar was invited to deliver a Lecture on Parenting.

Knowing my views I tried to refuse.

But on their insistence, I attended it.

I requested them to speak towards the end.

Speakers after speakers stressed on Parental Stress,Adjustment,Consistency, setting examples, carrot and stick, Lifestyle adjustment etc.

I was the last to speak.

‘ All of you have listened to exposition on Parenting.

Animals do Parenting, take care of their children, those of you who are present here have been brought up by parents,most of them not educated, definitely have not attended courses on Parenting.

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What happens To Children At Creche

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The Joint family system has broken up in India.

Both parents go to job.

The Infant/Child has to be taken care of.

What is being done?

Children are left at crèche or day Care centers.

I posted a Blog how these Infants, Children are given drops of Sedatives to sleep.

In the case of babysitters , the situation is worse.

There was a case reported in Tamil Nadu.

Both parents go to work leaving the Child in the care of a Baby Sitter.

They noticed that the Child was sleeping abnormally.

After a Couple of Days the parents consulted a Doctor and were informed the child was being drugged.

The parents suspected the baby Sitter and surprised her one dy by arriving well before the regular time.

They found the maid watching TV , munching snacks and the Child was not found!

On being interrogated the maid admitted to renting out the child for Rs.#00 a day for a man who gave the child to beggars for begging.

In Indian Cities it is a normal sight to see women with children begging at the Traffic signals.

The children are often rented,

It was also revealed that Fairer the child better the rate for the Child!

In th above case the child was recovered in the evening when the middle man came in the evening to return the child.

The baby sitter was getting Rs.300/day!

Read the following story how children are mistreated in the ..

As has been my refrain be with the family, Joint family.

You have to adjust even with servant maids, baby Sitters

Why not with your people, who care for you?

And the children will be in safe hands.

Interesting and funny

Child Flushed Down The Toilet Safe. Video

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A child in China was flushed down the toilet and rescued. Safe. Story: A NEWBORN BABY boy was rescued from

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Diapers,Parenting

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Use of Diapers if of recent origin in India,started some 15 years back.

When my children were growing up, we had under-wears, what is called as ‘Jatties’

These are made of thin cloth and dry faster.

We also tore up the Dhoti(Indian Men’s wear, a wrap around around the midriff to suitable lengths for use for the children.

This we continued till they were 3 to 4 years.

When I was a child , I am informed by my sister in law that the used to leave me naked till I was 4!

When the child wets, when it has no cloth around it, the place was swiped clean with Cow’s Dung.

Interesting and funny

“Dogs Are Buddhists

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I am always surprised at people talking a lot about Parenting.

I recall an instance when a leading school invited me for a Seminar as Faculty on Parenting organised for Schools and Parents in Chennai, around 2009.

Knowing my views and quirkiness in addressing a meet , I politely declined.

The Correspondent of the Institution where I was Management Consultant insisted I attend and confirmed me as a participant.

Being a good friend of the Correspondent I attended.

There was a lot of talk and discussions on parenting

When my turn came , I spoke thus,

‘Ladies and Gentlemen,

All of you are assembled here to listen to a talk on Parenting.

Animals, and even lowly Life, beget children and they bring their children up.

They do not attend a seminar.

That’s my talk.

Thank you”

I am always surprised at people trying to study parenting!

They leave children to baby sitters and attend seminars on parenting!

Now the story beats even this.

Digs are replacing children in Hong Kong and Singapore.And worse dogs are being declared as Buddhists.

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