Tag: Death

  • My Dying Words

    Who is not afraid of death?

    Those who reply in the negative are lying.

    It is fear of Pain that might accompany death that is more disconcerting more than the fear of the Unknown.

    Lord Byron on his death-bed
    Lord Byron on his death-bed

    Does my Life end here?

    For that matter what is Life?

    What have I done with/in my life?

    have I loved some body?

    If so, have I been found wanting in that?

    Do I meet up with those whom  I have loved and who had departed before me?

    Would i curse who have not helped me?

    Would I get food?

    Would people, especially my children, remember Me?

    Is there a God?

    Would He punish me?

    Would I be reborn?

    If so, would i be born as an animal to suffer?

    Would I be wandering body-less in between my death and the time before i am reborn and where?

    Would my philosophical musings help?

    Shankaracharya says ‘No”

    bhaja govindamsloka 1bhajagovindam bhajagovindamgovindam bhaja moodhamathesamprapte sannihite kaalenahi nahi rakshati dukrinkaranemeaning:bhaja – seek, govinda – the lord govinda, moodhamathe – o fool, o ignoramus, samprapte – (when) comes, sannihite – appointed, kaale – time, nahi – surely never,rakshati – saves, dukrinkarane – grammar rule.substance:seek or worship govinda, seek govinda, seek govinda, o fool or ignoramus. when the death comes at the appointed time, grammar rules will not save or rescue you”
    Recently I read an article where they listed some dying words of the Common people.
    The top one read ,
    I wish I had lived the way I wanted rather than what others wanted me to live”
    I here below furnish some Dying Words.
    Voltaire famous anti-christian atheist: “I am abandoned by God and man; I will give you half of what I am worth if you will give me six months’ life.” (He said this to Dr. Fochin, who told him it could not be done.) “Then I shall die and go to hell!” (His nurse said: “For all the money in Europe I wouldn’t want to see another unbeliever die! All night long he cried for forgiveness.”wink

    Robert Ingersoll: “O God, if there be a God, save my soul, if I have a soul!” (Some say it was this way: “Oh God, if there be a God, save my soul if I have a soul, from hell, if there be a hell!

    David Hume, atheist philosopher famous for his philosophy of empiricism and skepticism of religion, he cried loud on his death-bed “I am in flames!” It is said his “desperation was a horrible scene”.

    Napoleon Bonaparte, the French emperor, and who, like Adolf Hitler, brought death to millions to satisfy his greedy, power-mad, selfish ambitions for world conquest: “I die before my time, and my body will be given back to the earth. Such is the fate of him who has been called the great Napoleon. What an abyss between my deep misery and the eternal kingdom of Christ!”

    Et tu Brute,Then Fall, Caesar” Julius Caesar
    My favorite is from The God Father By Mario Puzo.
    Don Corleone dies at his Home of a heart attack surrounded by his grand son and son Michael Corleone.
    The Don opens his eyes and says,
    “Life is Beautiful’
    I wish I could say that as I die.

     

  • Balanced View Lifestyle World Death

    We come across extremes in Life,

    Life Quotes.
    Life Quotes

    Pleasure, Pain,

    Good,Bad,

    Hot, Cold,

    Love ,Hatred,

    Home, World,

    Family Life, Renunciation,

    How does one follow the Precepts?

    An advice can not be followed unless it is  experienced or we experience something similar.

    Another approach is to understand by observing simple things in Life.

    Rain flows as a River rolling down everything in its wake, not respecting anything.

    It is predetermined, even that it is not, nor are we sure about,

    As the things do not know why they are tumbled when being tumbled, nor the River that impels them, one rolls down Life.

    As such, one need not be overawed by Great-men, much less condescending towards the weak and less gifted.

    பெரியோரை வியத்தலும் இலமே;

    சிறியோரை இகழ்தல் அதனினும் இலமே.”
    We are solely responsible for our Life, be it Good Times  or Bad Times.
    This accountability is the backbone of Hinduism and the Theory of Karma.
    Of Course, we have limited Freedom, in that though we are free to choose a course of action, we can not determine the choices life offers or what impels us to choose a particular option.
    None can insult you, demean you or elevate without your consent.
    ‘Atman is Your best friend and is Your worst enemy” Bhagavad Gita.
    You are the Master of Your destiny.
    தீதும், நன்றும், பிறர் தர வாரா;’
    So are problems and solutions.
    Hinduism is such a Religion that can say God is the Repository of Grief as well.
    ‘Dukkabukh,’ Repository of Grief-Vishnusahasranama.
    Then why do we pray?
    Because he gives you the strength, provides you with the tolls to tide over.
    Dukka Sadanah’ Provides you with the avenues to combat the problems-Visnu Sahasranamam.
    Therefore problems and solutions are with us.
    “நோதலும், தணிதலும், அவற்றோர் அன்ன;”
    This being happy or Sad is meaningless.
    For even Death is not New!
    “சாதலும் புதுவது அன்றே! வாழ்தல்”
    So the whole world is Mine . All are my Friends.
    யாதும் ஊரே,யாவரும் கேளிர்;’
    ‘Mara Ca Parvat Devi Pitha Devo Maheswarah,
    Bhandavvah Siva Bhaktaasca,
    Swadeso Bhuvath Thrayam’
    Goddess Parvat is My Mother, Lord Siva is My Father,
    Worshipers of Siva are my relatives,
    Therefore the Whole World is Mine-Adi Sankaracharya.

    யாதும் ஊரே ; யாவரும் கேளிர் ;


    தீதும் நன்றும் பிறர்தர வாரா ;

    நோதலும் தணிதலும் அவற்றோ ரன்ன ;

    சாதலும் புதுவது அன்றே ; வாழ்தல்

    இனிதுஎன மகிழ்ந்தன்றும் இலமே; முனிவின்,

    இன்னா தென்றலும் இலமே; ‘மின்னொடு

    வானம் தண்துளி தலைஇ, ஆனாது

    கல்பொருது இரங்கும் மல்லற் பேர்யாற்று

    நீர்வழிப் படூஉம் புணைபோல, ஆருயிர்

    முறைவழிப் படூஉம்’ என்பது திறவோர்

    காட்சியின் தெளிந்தனம் ஆகலின், மாட்சியின்

    பெரியோரை வியத்தலும் இலமே;

    சிறியோரை இகழ்தல் அதனினும் இலமே.
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    திணை: பொதுவியல் துறை -பொருண்மொழிக் காஞ்சி
  • Coffin With Music System!

    RIP, with Stereo Music.

    This is what is new in Gadgets.

    Read On:

    Sound System with Coffin is the new addition to gadgets
    Sound System with Coffin

    A coffin and grave may be  one’s final resting place for eternity, but that doesn’t mean it has to be one of deadly silence.

    This week we  dug up a story about a coffin that included a built-in sound system. While it costs about $30,000, it’s probably the last music system that the dearly departed would ever need.

    The CataCoffin features a three-speaker Catacombo sound system that might not be loud enough to wake the dead, but it’s still worth trying.

    This high-tech solution for those who (let’s be honest) won’t really appreciate it involves putting a 2.5Ghz Intel core processor within the so-called CataTomb tombstone. It includes an upgradable music server with a 4G connection that wirelessly delivers the tunes to the CataCoffin six feet under, while a 7-inch display on the tombstone notes what song is currently being played down below.

    The sound system includes a couple of two-way front speakers with 4-inch midbass drivers and even an 8-inch sub bass element for bass so low, its subterranean. Might as well crank it up; we don’t think there will be any complaints from the neighbors.

    The CataPlay application provides a link from Spotify to allows users – living users that is – to keep the play list up to date. We’re thinking that this could include covers of the deceased’s favorite songs, or those musical guilty pleasures 0ne wouldn’t want to be caught dead listening to.

    Source:

    http://www.digitaltrends.com/home-theater/catacoffin-provides-music-for-the-afterlife/

     

     

  • Woman Squeezes Scrotum, Man Dies

     

    ‘Hell hath no fury like a Woman scorned”

    The Bard is proved right!

    Of all the Road Rages, this must be the best ,fast, innovative and most effective.

    A woman in China, in a fit of road rage, squeezed a Man’s Scrotum and he died.

    “A witness reported hearing the woman say, “I’ll squeeze it to death, you’ll never have children again!” The shopkeeper went into shock from the pain. Paramedics arrived to treat the victim, but he was soon pronounced dead.

    How do you go from arguing with someone about parking to grabbing them by the balls and squeezing so hard that you kill the person? This doesn’t appear to have been a case of self-defense. I mean, I have no idea if the shopkeeper was physically threatening the woman, but what a horrible way to die. It seems beyond gruesome and painful. I don’t even have testicles and I swear I’m feeling an imaginary sympathy pain.’

    http://articles.mamaslatinas.com/in_the_news/112464/woman_squeezes_mans_scrotum_so

    Related:

    A woman has been charged with malicious castration after allegedly squeezing a man’s scrotum until one of his testicles dislodged, North Carolina police reported.

    Joyce Maxine Gregory, 35, allegedly attacked a 59-year-old man during an argument in his apartment in Shelby early Saturday morning. When the man went outside to call 911, Gregory reportedly grabbed him, squeezing a testicle from his scrotum before he was able to free himself from her grip, according to police documents obtained by the Smoking Gun.

    Officer M. L. McPherson stated in his report that the victim’s “scrotum had been split open,” adding that, “I was also able to observe one of the subject’s testicles protruding from the scrotum area.”

    Police also observed “blood on the floor of the porch and the siding of the residence.”

    A urologist who treated the victim told police that stitches could treat the injury and that there would be no long-term damage, according to the police report.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/05/joyce-maxine-gregory-squeezed-testicles-scrotum-malicious-castration_n_1572324.html#slide=1759505

  • Why Cremate The Dead

    Hindus , majority of them, Cremate the Dead, especially The Brahmins as it is the only procedure laid down in disposing of the Dead.

     

    Elaborate rituals are performed before lighting the Funeral  Pyre.

     

    The Sastras define five different types of Fire and ordains the Use of one type of Fire, which is generated by a specific method.

     

    The body should be disposed of after one and a Half hour of Death and not before.

     

    The Body should be shorn of every thing a nd one has to Meet the Maker as He came into this World.

     

    I will be posting a post on this.

     

    In the meanwhile the West is adapting to Cremation , purely on practical grounds.

     

    1.Cost.

     

    2.Space.

     

    3.Environment.

     

    All these and the Health of the living are taken care of in Hindu system of Cremation.

     

    Story:

    Traditional Hindu Cremation.
    Traditional Hindu Cremation.

    Today, roughly four of every 10 deaths in America involve cremation, which represents a significant increase in the past few decades. There are many reasons contributing to why a growing number of people choose cremation versus the more traditional casketed ground burial, including greater religious acceptance, less adherence to family traditions, and an increasingly mobile society.

    Modern Cremation
    Modern Cremation

    Lower Cost
    Cremation is generally less expensive than a “traditional funeral” — i.e., the casketed interment below ground of a deceased human following a visitation/wake and/or a religious or secular ceremony. According to the National Funeral Directors Association, the national average cost of a funeral is $6,560, which includes a metal casket but not the cemetery plot, grave marker (headstone), or miscellaneous other costs, such as for flowers or obituaries. According to the Cremation Association of North America, the national average cost of cremation is $1,650, which includes “limited memorialization services and a basic urn.”

    When considering the costs, it is important to understand that cremation is neither an alternative to nor a rejection of a traditional funeral. Instead,cremation is merely one form of bodily disposition from which you can choose. In other words, if you select cremation for yourself or someone you love, you can still hold a wake/visitation and/or a religious or secular ceremony beforehand if you wish. This means that the amount of money you spend can be greater or less than the above averages depending upon the goods and services you select. For example, a “direct cremation” — in which a body is cremated without any type of funeral service or loved ones present — generally costs less than $1,000. Conversely, it is possible to spend four or five times that amount just to purchase a unique urn handcrafted by an artist.

    Flexible Service Options
    Because the human body begins a process immediately after death that eventually results in its decomposition unless it is professionally embalmed (which temporarily slows decay), a funeral or memorial service with the body present, as well as burial, occur relatively soon after death. Since the immediate family usually needs to arrange the funeral and committal services, and to provide out-of-town loved ones and friends time to travel, services generally occur within four to 10 days after the death. (Religious tradition, the family’s wishes, and many other factors can impact the timing, however.)

    On the other hand, after a body is cremated, there is no urgency to do anything permanent with the cremated remains (“ashes”). It is common for the immediate family, for example, to hold a private viewing of the deceased and/or to witness the start of the cremation processitself and then conduct a larger memorial or scattering service weeks, months or even years later. This enables loved ones to focus on the immediacy of their grief without dealing with the myriad details needed to rapidly create a funeral and committal service.

    Better for the Environment
    Determining how “green” something is these days rests in the eye of the beholder. After all, a household that merely recycles aluminum cans might still consider itself green versus another household that uses solar power. While not considered as eco-friendly as green burial or natural burial, or evenalkaline hydrolysis, cremation has long been considered better for the environment since a traditional funeral usually involves the use of a formaldehyde-based embalming fluid, as well as the obvious need for land use when burying a casket or coffin.

    According to the Greensprings Natural Cemetery Preserve in Newfield, New York, traditional ground interment in a United States cemetery results in the burial of 827,060 gallons of embalming fluid every year. Unless you choose to hold a funeral or memorial service before cremating the deceased, you might not need the services of a professional embalmer. (And even if you do, refrigeration is a viable alternative.)

    And many options concerning the cremated remains do not require any land use at all, such as keeping them in an urn in your home or scattering them in a meaningful location. Even if you decide to bury the urn or place it in a columbarium, the amount of land required is still less than that needed to bury a casket or coffin.

    http://dying.about.com/od/Funeral_Memorial_Planning/a/Why-Choose-Cremation.htm?nl=1