I have been a risk taker, no calculated risks even.
I do not understand the term calculated risk.
A risk remains one so long it remains.
One Oncologist told me that as far as he is concerned in treating cancer patients, he does not care about the risks,stating that even a miniscule .1% is 100 5 risk for patient!
So is risk taking.
I would simply take any action which appealed me, especially jobs,may be it might offer more benefits or the Job content I liked.
I was very out going, though not easy-going.
These remain the same even this day.
I do things as I used to do, but with slight trepidation, but it will be in my mind, which was not the case earlier,but I do things any way.
As to with people I remain the same.
My close friend of 43 Years tells me I am not easy to approach though I am easy to move with and an extrovert
I do not know.
I used to eat a lot of Chocolates, Ice cream and Sweets.
I still do.
My grand children love me for this as we raid the Fridge together after others sleep.
I used to be irreverent towards every thing, including Religion.
I still do.
I was an Agnostic, bordering on Atheism.
But now am an Advaitin and believe in Hinduism.
I used to be blunt and rude.
I am so even now.
But with a difference.
I think before I speak to family members other than my son and daughter.
I try to use slightly polite language.
I was interested in Books, Music.
Still do.
I used to drink and smoke.
Now I don’t.
I like good things in Life and at the same time can be very comfortable in a simpler surrounding.
Never show my emotions, then and now.
So,
Barring a few minor garnishing I remain the same.
Have I grown up?
I do not know.
But I have not changed.
How about you?
* I am 63.

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