How To Nail Yourself By Yourself
There seems to be a confusion between being Frank, Blunt and Open.
I find people, under the impression of being frank express what they think immediately, irrespective of whom they are talking to.
One category is informing others of the opinions expressed by the third-party , in the passing.
Some times to the party concerned!
In the other case, it some how reaches the one who made the initial comment and puts a strain in Relationships.
In most case, especially the younger brigade, it is the 'in' thing to declare that they are open with their spouses and that they disclose everything about them and their Life.
Nothing can be more disastrous ah this to damage the Married Life.
There is difference to informing what is necessary and what is not important.
By disclosing everything, you become vulnerable for attacks, which could have been avoided.
It is not necessary to divulge every thing to every one, including wife.
More harm comes out of it than good.
But. there are some issues like extramarital affair(if you are serious about it), Financial dealing, Health issues-these issues should never be kept secret from the wife.
Again there are some statements that we make ourselves about us, which would nail us in the long run.
I read an article on this.
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