The area they seem to lack is the mental toughness to handle Life.
They sound alright till they have everything going their way, cushy job, material comforts starting from a Smartphone to own Home.
But once they encounter a slight problem in what they imagine to be Perfect World, their world comes apart.
It might be the denial of a Smartphone ' loss of a Job or a troubled relationship.
They seek solace in Drinks and Drugs.
They remain depressed, seek the help of a Psychiatrist.
And there is a stigma attached to visiting a Psychiatrist.Even in advanced countries like the US, once the Employer knows you had been consulting a Psychiatrist, your chances of getting a job gets reduced.
This is true of Relationships as well
What one needs is Character , application and the wisdom to understand that, well..' Life is Bitchy: it can toss you around for no fault of yours.
This process takes longer.
Another course of action is to confide in Family elders, a rare commodity or in friends, again rarer.
The next best for immediate solution is the Anonymous Help where Trained professionals , who have no axe to grind against you, with whom your problems will remain confidential.A world wide Suicide Help Line is available.
I am providing the details and Link.
Best is to be tough in meeting Life's problems and not give up.
You are here for a Purpose.
Job, relationship loss, are temporary.
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