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  • Making of A Girl Friend, Love, Sex Photo Essay

    Definition is Girl friend  is one who happens to be a girl( Am I right?)

    Sex is one of the most powerful instincts of beings,(Survival,Thirst,Hunger being others in the order of priority),and the terms Love,Affection etc are the cloaks in which it hides.

    Sex is associated with survival of the species and hence Nature has given its attribute as uncontrollable(easily I mean).

    Prudes may hasten to blame me for clubbing Love .Affection in this category;let me add that Sex is not a sin but obsession with it is.

    How does this happen?

    At the metal level, though felicitated by culture ‘Lifestyle and environment, it has some thing to do with ‘what’-I do not know.

    One thing is for sure.

    The Bard got it Right.

    ‘Whoever Loved that Loved not at first sight’

    First Love remains ever green forever.

    I can vouch for it.

    One sees some one and that’s it.

    You don’t know nor analyse it.

    If you do, you lose it, I mean, the pleasure of it.

    As I am fond of saying, don’t analyse feelings, go with it if you want to live.

    The problems associated with real quarrels among people during Love need not be taken seriously and if the bonding is natural it will have a Natural death.

    Most of the time you lose your Love, the pain lingers throughout your Life.

    Being the puzzle it is Life has some course for us.

    The memories always make you happy.

    Losing in Love is also a pleasure for we do not know what would have happened if we had been successful, possible we could have killed the Love.

    I can visualize people smirking, ‘Being philosophical,as you could do nothing about it’

    Be it.

    It makes me in control of myself and at the same time be happy.

    Now on to something light.

    It is always a pleasure to see young ones express in Love and especially so when they express it.

    The notes they write may not be grammatically correct nor elegant in expression,

    The way the girl looks at the Boy when she thinks none is looking at her may sound childish,

    The way the Boys show off in front of their girl friends,

    The non sense (to others) they speak endless, of late on Mobile,

    The airs they put on as if the World exists only for them,

    Well, who cares!

    Pleasure.

    Wish people remain that way.

     

    Making of a Girl friend.
    Note by Girl Friend
    Making of a Girl friend.
    Love Note.
    Making of a Girl friend.
    Breakfast by Girl friend

     

    Making of a Girl Friend
    Girl Friend’s Dinner.

     

    http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/9qDEoS/www.fullpunch.com/random/markings-of-an-perfect-girlfriend-26-pics.html/

     

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  • A Mother’s Agony’ Over Her Son.You Are Not Alone.

    I read a moving article on blogher,by a Mother on her son..

    It was agonizing to go through the article.

    Why is it the children behave the way they do?

    Is it because they take the Parents granted?

    Or is it because they are the people who would not hit back because of Love and Affection?

    Yes Children raised themselves on their own.

    Parents did nothing.

    Parents are some thing to be ridiculed  and insulted.

    A seed also becomes a tree begetting seeds.

    The last line of the Mother was poignant.

    ‘I don’t know. But please tell me I’m not alone. And that it will be okay.’

    Rest Assured, You are not Alone.

    Read the Related Story.

    I can only quote Shakespeare.

    ‘How sharper than a serpent’s tooth it is
    To have a thankless child.
    King Lear (1.4.280)

    Story:

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    A Mother’s Agony Over Her Son.

    I’m going to be honest with you guys. I’m really tired of my son.

    The level of disrespect and general level of unhappiness is becoming so distressing that I’m barely functioning as his mother. I don’t want to be around him. I don’t want to do anything for him.

    I’ve given this so much thought — maybe too much. What am I doing wrong? Why is he so unhappy? Is he depressed? Do we have a real issue here?

    I don’t have the answer. He is generally a normal, happy boy. Until it comes to me or his father. The way he treats us is just…horrifying. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING is ever right. Ever enough.

    Why? How did we create this person who disrespects, demands, and blames us for everything? How did he become so… spoiled?

    What do you do when all you want to do is scream, and cry, and hit, and run away?

    What do you do when it’s always just boiling. Festering.

    When the last thing you want to hear is anyone’s voice. Whether disrespecting, whining, asking, needing.

    When you can’t for the LIFE of you imagine what else they could possibly need. What you AREN’T doing?

    When the more you give them, the more they want. The more they complain. The more they tell you they hate you. What a terrible mother you are.

    Who am I raising? And what am I doing wrong. Isn’t the way he treats me a reflection on my motherhood?

    I love him so much. This is not the mother I wanted to be. I wanted to be the mother who has long talks, and listens, and encourages moving away from the norm. Using imagination, experimentation. Trial and error.

    But I’m not.

    I’m the mother who needs strict adherence to the rules. The routine. Do it now the way I want it done before my head blows off.

    I don’t know why. Because I work from here, and I need some level of understanding and order? Because I just need people to not be contradictory even for just a little while?

    http://www.blogher.com/one-where-i-spill-my-guts-about-my-sons-behavior

    Related:

    Sons Leave Dad to rot and Die.

    Two West Seattle brothers accused of literally leaving their father to rot to death now face felony elderly-abuse charges.

    King County prosecutors contend Kenneth and Keith Shaw lived rent-free in their parents’ Alki neighborhood home while their 86-year-old father wasted away, neglected. Police contend the pair of 50-somethings refused to move their parents into a nursing home because they wanted to inherit their parents’ ample savings.

    Conditions were so bad when paramedics arrived in November 2010 that a trail of blood followed Kyle Shaw Jr. as the first responders carried him from the home, Seattle Police Det. Suzanne Moore told the court.

     http://www.seattlepi.com/local/article/Sons-accused-after-elderly-West-Seattle-man-rots-4042130.php#ixzz2CNEWvPKQ

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  • Marriage for a Fixed Period’ New Law?

    Marriage is being confused with Sex here.

    English: image of marriage license
    English: image of marriage license (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

    The argument that problems arise need not be a reason for negating the marriage.

    If the logic of uneasiness in facing or solving problems is the issue then living  itself is a problem.

    People tend to enter  the bond  of Marriage with the mind-set ‘what  can I get’, with out realising that Marriage, as in other things in Life is a two-way traffic.

    One has to bear in mind the partner also has expectations and as no one is perfect, disappointments are bound to be there.

    If Divorce or ‘Fixed time Marriage’ is the solution, what next?

    Do you propose to remain Single?

    If not, what is the guarantee that the same incompatibility would not creep in again?

    After your first Relationship did not last because of inability to compromise.

    There can be no Relationship without Commitment and reciprocity.

    In Life unless one learns to compromise, there is no Happiness.

    Our Survival itself is because of Compromises .

    Story:

    ”

    When you live in a place with a 50 percent divorce rate, is “till death do you part” even a realistic concept? In a radical rethinking of matrimony, Mexico City’s assembly is mulling a proposed civil code reform that would enable the city to issue marriage licenses with time limits.

    The idea, explains assemblyman Leonel Luna, is to help couples avoid “the tortuous process of divorce.” Instead, couples could opt for a renewable contract for a minimum two-year term, complete with provisions for the division of assets and custody of children. “If the relationship is not stable or harmonious,” Luna says, “the contract simply ends.” Luna says there could be a vote on the new marriage contracts by the end of the year.

    Unsurprisingly, the Catholic Church, still fired up over Mexico City legalizing same-sex unions in 2009, is none too pleased with the move. Mexican archdiocese spokesman Hugo Valdemar told Reuters this week that “This reform is absurd. It contradicts the nature of marriage. It’s another one of these electoral theatrics the assembly tends to do that are irresponsible and immoral.” Because anything other than a lifetime binding contract between a man and woman is hooey!

    There’s something irresistible about the notion of a love that can last forever. But matrimony has always existed as both a business relationship as well as a romantic one. Sure, plenty of arranged marriages have led to deep and lasting love, but they’ve also been built on practical social alliances between families. The blending of fortunes, the rearing of children — they all factor into the culture of marriage. Just ask Patti Stanger. It’s not just about eternal ardor. So why not make it easier for couples to openly acknowledge another practical aspect of marriage – that it doesn’t always last until one person gets the privilege of burying the other one?

    Love, even under the best of circumstances, is not a static condition. Even if you’re with the same person, the relationship you’re in at 24 isn’t the one you’re going to be in at 64. And though it may sound harsh to subject it to periodic review, there is in fact both a pleasantly incentivizing reason to do so and a luxuriously liberating one as well. Think of any couple you’ve ever known — or possibly participated in — in which domesticity was taken as Let Yourself Go pass. Partnered life doesn’t have the urgent frisson of early dating, but it’s not an excuse to stop putting in the work, either. How different might the experience of marriage be if both participants in it were subject to periodic, mutual review? The chance to say, here’s what’s working, here’s what’s changed, here’s what needs improvement? The opportunity, even, to say, maybe it’s time to move on? Why not acknowledge that a great five-year run could be more satisfying than a 30-year sentence? After all, we leave jobs and houses and quietly distance ourselves from old friends all the time, and it’s rarely considered failure. Instead it’s understood to be part of growth and the nature of life. So why is permanence so highly prized? Why is endurance equated with commitment?

    http://www.salon.com/2011/09/30/why_marry_forever/

  • Call of Fiancée Awakens From Coma

    How deep affection and Love is demonstrated when a patient in Coma was awakened after ten months!

    Lovers Mathew Taylor and Anda Nurul .
    Love Awakens .

    “For ten months, he had been lying in a hospital bed, unconscious and unresponsive.

    The injuries Mathew Taylor had suffered in a motorbike crash were so severe that his devastated family were warned he may never wake up.

    But then came the phone call that would change everything. From her home in Bali 7,000 miles away, Mr Taylor’s fiancee  Handayani Nurul chatted to him – and at the sound of her voice, tears began trickling down his cheek.

    It was the first time the 31-year-old had shown any sign of recovery since fracturing his skull in the horrific accident on the Indonesian island.

    Now, every time the phone rings, Mr Taylor reaches out his hand.

    Describing the moment Mr Taylor first responded to his fiancee’s voice, his stepfather Simon Moore said: ‘He had tears in his eyes as we held the phone to his ear. She asked him something and he said a silent yes.

    Then tears were coming down his face. It  was brilliant.’

    Now, Mr Taylor’s mother Heather calls Miss Nurul, known as Anda, and passes the phone towards her son.

    Mr Moore said: ‘As soon as he hears her  voice he lifts his hand for the phone. He listens to her and you can see this change in him.’

    Mr Taylor, from Overseal, Derbyshire, met Miss Nurul, 27, after he moved to Indonesia in 2009 to teach English.

    The couple planned to get married, but Mr Taylor was knocked down while riding a motorcycle in Bali on July 9 last year.

    As well as a fractured skull, he had to have his eye socket reconstructed, using bone taken from his thigh.

    Following surgery, he slipped into a coma and has remained in a vegetative state ever since.

    Mr Taylor had no medical insurance, so  his family were forced to raise £100,000 for  him to be treated in Bali. His father, Darrell Taylor, contributed £50,000 of his savings, while Mr Moore remortgaged his home to find the remaining £50,000.

  • Some of The Best Facebook Statuses.

    Really funny.

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    ”    I want to make a Facebook account and the name will be Nobody so when I see stupid crap people post, I can Like it. And it will say Nobody Likes This.
    “Username or Password incorrect.” TELL ME WHICH ONE YOU SON OF A BITCH
    One out of four people is a chinese. If your father, your mother and your brother are not Chinese, it must be you.
    My mother in law walks five miles every day, I wonder where she is at this moment
    Never waste a moment, it may be the last with someone you love.
    Success lies not in the result but in the effort. “BEING” the Best is not at all important,”DOING” the Best is all that matters.
    Always appreciate the time you get, because you never know how much longer it`ll last.
    Be your self and not what others want you to be.
    You know why people say that you can’t Sleep when you are in Love, because for the 1st Time in your life you will find something more beautiful than your dreams.
    Hey you, looking at my status. Hi!٩(-̮̮̃•̃)۶
    Trust is a small word with a big concept.
    When God opened the window of the Heaven He asked me: What is your wish for today? I said : Please take special care of the person reading this.
    Why do we always ignore those that adore us, adore those that ignore us. Love those that hurt us and hurt those that love us??
    Your smile looks adorable on you. You should wear it more often.
    If you want to leave a lasting impression then treat people the same way you would like to be treated.
    Love me for a second, and I will make that second last a lifetime.
    Do not think about the past. Accept the Present. Think for the Future, and face tomorrow with a sweet and beautiful smile.
    No one can change a person. But someone can be a reason for a person to change.
    Being a family means you are a part of something very wonderful. It means you will love & be loved for the rest of your life.
    I want you to know something, but I don’t want to tell you, so I’ll just let the first three words of this sentence explain it.
    Those who Hate, find it hard to Love: Those who Love find it hard to Hate.
    The moment when you are sure you can’t lose what you own, is exactly the moment when you start losing it.
    Work hard to get what you like, otherwise you’ll be forced to like what you get.
    I need many things to help me live, but I need only you, to make life worth living.
    Love happens whether you want it to or not. Don’t try to control it.
    When I think of you, I don’t think of tomorrow.
    Why does life keep teaching me lessons I have no desire to learn?
    God could not be everywhere therefore he made mothers.
    Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.
    When everything seems to be unfair, when all that you do is not appreciated, I’ll take your hand, wipe away your tears, take you for a walk and remind you how special you are. If not for them, for me.
    You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel.
    We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.
    When you feel alone, just look at the spaces between you fingers, and remember that’s where my fingers fit perfectly.
    Relationships do not need promises, terms, and conditions. It just needs two wonderful people one who can trust and one who can understand.

    Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.
    If you want to read about love and marriage you’ve got to buy two separate books.
    The four most important words in any marriage…”I’ll do the dishes.”
    If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular?
    Think of love as a card game: first, get rid of the jokers, throw away the hearts, keep the diamonds… then try to get a king
    There is a place you can touch a woman that will drive her crazy. Her heart
    I was nauseous and tingly all over. I was either in love or I had smallpox
    The last time I was inside a woman was when I went to the Statue of Liberty
    The great question… which I have not been able to answer… is, “What… does a woman want?
    You can’t put a price tag on love, but you can on all its accessories
    We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.
    You don’t always have to try so hard. A thankful heart is so much more attractive than a thirsty heart.
    When you feel alone, just look at the spaces between you fingers, and remember that’s where my fingers fit perfectly.
    Relationships do not need promises, terms, and conditions. It just needs two wonderful people one who can trust and one who can understand.
    An open mind leaves a chance for someone to drop a worthwhile thought in it.
    Never cry for the person who hurts you, Just smile & say THANKS for giving me a chance to find someone better than you.
    Ability is what you’re capable of doing, motivation determines what you do, and attitude determines how well you do it.
    Waiting for someone you love is never easy. Especially when the one you’re waiting for isn’t aware that you’re waiting…
    Accept that you have lost, but never accept that you have failed.
    Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired
    If I tell you, I love you, can I keep you forever
    Just refreshed her facebook page and there are still no wall messages
    The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman’s heart.
    Do you believe in love at first sight? Or do I have to walk past you again?
    Love is a fire: But whether it is going to warm your heart or burn down your house, you can never tell
    A real man doesn’t love a million girls, he loves one girl in a million ways ♥
    Is missing home…_̴ı̴̴̡̡̡ ̡͌l̡̡̡ ̡͌l̡*̡̡ ̴̡ı̴̴̡ ̡̡͡|̲̲̲͡͡͡ ̲▫̲͡ ̲̲̲͡͡π̲̲͡͡ ̲̲͡▫̲̲͡͡ ̲|̡̡̡ ̡ ̴̡ı̴̡̡ ̡͌l̡̡̡….sweet home…:(
    If you had a chance to be someone else for a day.. Type in who and why.
    What did you learn today? Student: Apparently not enough! We have to go back tomorrow!
    The difference between school and life? In school, you’re taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you’re given a test that teaches you a lesson.
    don’t want to go back to prison, i mean school, i mean prison, i mean school, oh who am i kidding, school is prison and prison is school!
    math grow up and solve your own problems
    Teacher: I’m going to call your mother. Student: can you please tell their i forgot my lunch and that I my homework?
    What’s the difference between Jail and School? Prisoners get better food than school kids do.
    Love, (insert your name here)
    How is it when ur in kindergarten u don’t want to take a nap, but in all the schools above elementary u would kill for 1?
    If you are ready for school to be over press “like”
    Fridays should happen more often.
    Math use to be just 1+1=2 Now it’s (4x+2y)(5x-9y)
    Teacher: I’m sick of how this class treats subs! When you have a sub you treat them how you treat me…
    …wonders why homework use to be 1+1=2, and now its Y-2Y=4(X-7)Y=777-X-9-0987655>_< AGGGGGHH!!!my brain hurts!!!
    Life is like Math… Once you are done with one problem, there is another one under it 🙂
    Exams = Studying ~ Take the S T U away and you have Dying ~ Therefore ~ Studying = Preparing for death
    Kids:then where is my pay check?

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