My daughter deivered a baby about 45 days back.It was a Natural Delivery, no drips even.She with stood it gamely with out even a whimper.
Certain behavioral changes were noticed.This is about this and how we over came them.
1.She became highly irritable , at times hysterical, blaming the child ,her father!-Baby’sGrand father!(me)
2.Sleep pattern was disturbed.
3.At the drop of a hat she will consult various Specialists,Gyn,Dieticians,Lactation Expert,Paediatricians et all;all offering conflicting opinions.
4.She was constantly worried about the baby.
5.Food timings were irregular and she was not eating regularly..
For 1-The reason is that she has been able to make people adjust to her till the baby came along.All around her adjust to her ,father, Mother, brother ,husband.She is near perfect in organising herself, both professional and personal life.Baby is different.It can not understand and acts instinctively and demands milk when it needs it;doesn’t matter what time it is.
It cries for no reasons known to us.It needs cuddling well into the night.you can not talk to him for he does not know what the fuss is all about.He wants things ,period.In short, she could not make him adjust to her.At the same time she feels that she feels bad when she finds irritating when she could not meet his demands immediately on demand.This has created conflict in her mind.She lost sleep,that led to tiredness and irritation;this in turn made her more irritable and the cycle continud.Hence the tantrums.The solution was to deal with her firmly, saying that she ought to do it and her comforts ,for the time being should take a back seat, at least till the baby is 90 days old.If he wants to be cuddled, no matter what time it is and fed when he wants.You can not apply discipline and time management to him.This was done by her Husband as she was my favorite and I could not talk to her that way;I was more concerned about her health.Result was evident in a couple of days.When she slleeps, me and her mother shall take care him.She will have the milk expressed; we will keep it in the fridge and take it out hallf an hour before the approximate feed time in the night(around 1am and another at 3 am),warm the milk in bottle in warm water and feed him and cuddle him in my bed.My daughter got about 6 hours of uninterrupted sleep and she is now perrfectly all right and has become radiant as before.
-Child will not follow,at this stage, fixed time frame for feeding nor will consistent in milk intake.Feed it as it demands.Specialists say ,at times, to feed once in two hours.By blindly following this, a friend of my daughter had landed her child in Hospital for Deydration.Reason;when she found the child asleep even after 2 hours of feeding him she kept quiet with out feeding.When people say feed him once in every two hours and also feed him as he demands means, it means you feed him once in 2 hours and even after 2 hrs, even if he is sleeping ,wake him and see if he wants a feed.Child will never take more than what it needs;it will spit it out.( Do not keep the Expressed Milk for more than 4 hours , even in a fridge)
Another prolbem is is child’s bowel movement.it is all right for the child with out moving bowels for 48 hours.
Give the baby well boiled and cooled water at least three times a day,three tea spoons a time.
If the problem persists,take the Stem of the leaf( the betel leaf is from the betel pepper, or pan plant (Piper betle), family Piperaceae) which Indians use it for Pan which they eat after food,wash it,slighly heat the leaf in open fire,say a candle) it should not be burnt) , cut the top small stem protruding at the top ,dip it in pure castor oil and insert it in the anus of the baby and keep it there for about ten minutes; the child shall relieve it self.You can remove the stem.This is very safe.Inserting tablets Doctors prescribe induce colic pain and you can see it in the face of the child when it passes motion.
Do not run to Doctors/specialists for every small thing.If the child takes mother’s milk, it will be perfectly ok.Nothing to worry about.
Do not try to analyse the child too much and its behavior.It is behaving on reflex and be relaxed-Enjoy Motherhood.
What I have expressed here are born out of experience and practices followed in India for ages.For excessive lactation, see my blog on Excessive lactation/Breast feeding.
If some of the points are useful even to one mother, I shall be happy.Decision to follow is yours.
Note;This is applicable to babies being fed Mother’s Milk;others please seek doctor’s opinion.
Tag: health care
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Post Delivery Behavior.-Mother’sBehavior,Baby Feeding,Bowel Movement,
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Osteo Arthritis( joint pain/knee pain)-Cure through Food.
I was suffering from joint and knee pain for about three months to such an extent, when I got up from toilet seat I used to hear my knee joints creaking as if I was opening a door which was old and not oiled.I could not sit,walk or lie down with out excruciating pain.
I consulted Osteo specialist;he had my knees xrayed and informed me that my joints have worn out and that I could undergo surgey, when they would fix a steelplate and even then my movement will not be smooth as before.
I referred to natural medicines being used for ages in our homes.
-Eliminated all root vegetables,like potatoes,sweet potatoes,beet root .
-among green vegetables,brinjal,plantain,beans,string beans,
-completey avoided oil butter, ghee,cheese of any kind in cooking
-ate greens,lettuces and leaves of vegetables every day(cooked with salt added to taste).
-stopped drinking
-drank 5 litres of water a day including one litre early morning in empty stomach
-walked a kilo meter a day in the morning
-went to bed after light food,not later than 10 pm.
The suggested period of treatment was three months.
I was allright in one month.
I am perfectly fit now and in fact I have climbed hills of 1500 -1750 feet with out any discomfort or pain unaided.(I am 60)
Those who have similar problem ,please try. -
Governor-General Quentin Bryce spends $700k on Africa visit-Australia.
WellThough highly oblectionable and reprehensible, for us in India,this is fleabite. We have politicians who openly swallow millions of public money.We with draw cases against a man who funneled crores into past Prime Minister’s account(Bofors); we have Chief Ministers who openly amass wealth, demanding 10-25% on every government contract;we have a Chief Minister who keeps on building statues for her through the state ,despite Supreme Court’s ruling; and the beauty is we keep electing them again and again.
Probably the price we have to pay for Democracy!People talk of ending caste system and class system.What about Political class?
Mute spectators like us are left holding the tab.
Story:
TAXPAYERS have been left with a $700,000 bill from Governor-General Quentin Bryce’s controversial 18-day trek to 10 African countries earlier this year.Ms Bryce visited the countries in March and April as part of a campaign to win Australia a seat on the UN Security Council.
Heavily criticised for lobbying on behalf of the Rudd Government, she faces fresh attacks over the extraordinary cost.
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Smart grocery shopping: Check! No, wait
So long as people eat pakaged foods , you will neither be happy nor merry.Stop this obsession with packaged food business.You live to enjoy lfe.For that you make money.With that you do not find time to have home cooked food from natural food grains like wheat,oats etc; of what sense is your earning?Earmark some time amidst your quest for money for cooking at home and eat healthy food.Instead of paying the doctor pay for Natural food.Our ancestors did not go for Pacaged food with details of Nutrion content table to live and it is a fact they were healthier.In fact my father never even had a headache or fever, let alone other illnesses.He lived to be 78!
Story:
The Smart Choices Program, launched in August, deemed Froot Loops nutritious enough to sport a big checkmark on the front of boxes signifying that choosing the cereal was indeed smart. The news media and consumer advocacy groups had a field day with that one, and the U.S. Food and Drug Administration vowed to protect the public against any misconceptions caused by the labeling system.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/10/26/AR2009102602178.html?wpisrc=newsletter
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