It produces the opposite reaction.
You have run the family for nearly 30 t0 40 years and you have taught , or you thought you had taught your children to face Life,.
Why not leave them be?
What could they do?
They might make mistakes. like you and I have mad when we were young, or for that matter even now.
Why not admit that the younger generation may be( in Fact) is more intelligent in handling Life than we did?
Let them run the family the way they want.
If you have brought them up well and proper they would have the basic Morals alright.
That would do.
Not the silly expectation of them coming to you and submitting their account and informing y
When you attempt to feed the child, some food would remain.
Take this and keep it on the road where a Dog can eat.
Do not feed the child in front of others or in Public.
If you have to feed in a Milk Bottle, keep the Milk Bottle covered, ready-made covers are available .
To prevent the child waking up in the middle of the night crying, keep a New Broomstick underneath your cot.
Some times you may find the children crying for no reason, despite being fit.
In these circumstances, take two red chilliness,little Crystal Salt in your right Palm close it, let the child face The East , keep your close Palm in the other , rotate clockwise , anti clock wise, up and down in front of he child’s Face and leave the chilies and Salt on the road.
There is also this practice of throwing this mixture in Coal Embers at Home or in the Flames of a kerosene stove instead of throwing the mixture on the road.
Normally this mixture dropped in Fire or Embers should make you choke.
In the process, what has happened to my Parental Space?
Dealing with Physical Disease one thing, I am not qualified,but emotional and value systems, I have a better interest and motivation.
Our patents knew nothing of these . nor did I do any of these.
I am alright and so are my children.
…We will not have any problem with the children, if Only,
Parents know to stay together in marriage,
Do not Drink,
Live with elders in the family,
Have regular and clean habits,
Good values in Life,
Do not send children to school at the age of # 3,
Force them to do things which are beyond them,
Send them to all Courses from Karate to dancing,
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