Tag Extended family

Service Portal For Seniors.

The Joint Family system having broken up, thanks to Western Culture, the Seniors are now considered as mere appendages.

Gone are the days when looking after the elderly was the duty of Children.

No longer.

If you imagine this is because of economic reasons, you are mistaken.

A good percentage of these people in the Senior Citizen's Home are the parents of children settled abroad.

Children send in money and ask the parents to take care of themselves.

I had posted the elders , taking into consideration of the changing value systems, one has to accept reality, without being morose about these issues.

The elders were here before these children were born and were taking care of themselves.

No point in mourning on this issue.

One can be self-reliant if one is confident.

What it needs is the unnecessary clinging to some one else even if it be Children.

One should be happy that they have at least the Financial security.

Imagine people with out even this and being discarded and neglected

One is required to be more updated on the information side and the minimum skill to operate modern gadgets,

If one has a basic knowledge of Computers and Internet, most of your problems are solved.

My brother's wife, 74, is a Diabetes patient and my Brother is 82 years.

She needs Insulin injections daily and she can not nor my brother can Use a Syringe.

The Nurse who comes is not regular and my brother has to keep on hunting for a Nurse for injections.

Locating the nurses is a problem as the information from service providers is generally confusing and really not focused on the issue at hand.

This is not the only issue the elderly have.

Elders, whose children are abroad, find it extremely difficult to handle daily issues like buying things, Emergency help,Health Care,Daily Living Aids ,Services.

one wishes that there is a nodal information resource that can offer these services Online to help the Senior Citizens.

One needs to log in and have the information.service they need is at hand.

I recently come across a site that offers this service.

What happens To Children At Creche

The Joint family system has broken up in India.

Both parents go to job.

The Infant/Child has to be taken care of.

What is being done?

Children are left at crèche or day Care centers.

I posted a Blog how these Infants, Children are given drops of Sedatives to sleep.

In the case of babysitters , the situation is worse.

There was a case reported in Tamil Nadu.

Both parents go to work leaving the Child in the care of a Baby Sitter.

They noticed that the Child was sleeping abnormally.

After a Couple of Days the parents consulted a Doctor and were informed the child was being drugged.

The parents suspected the baby Sitter and surprised her one dy by arriving well before the regular time.

They found the maid watching TV , munching snacks and the Child was not found!

On being interrogated the maid admitted to renting out the child for Rs.#00 a day for a man who gave the child to beggars for begging.

In Indian Cities it is a normal sight to see women with children begging at the Traffic signals.

The children are often rented,

It was also revealed that Fairer the child better the rate for the Child!

In th above case the child was recovered in the evening when the middle man came in the evening to return the child.

The baby sitter was getting Rs.300/day!

Read the following story how children are mistreated in the ..

As has been my refrain be with the family, Joint family.

You have to adjust even with servant maids, baby Sitters

Why not with your people, who care for you?

And the children will be in safe hands.